This is not precisely what you asked for, so feel free to ignore, but: I can't resit reccing my primary fandom at the moment, A Seditious Affair by KJ Charles, which is an m/m romance novel that centers a BDSM relationship. It's set in the late 1810s, so the language for and navigation of the kink are not modern, but they're a central element of the book and the main characters' relationship. It includes plenty of porn, but also lots of plot and character development and relationship development out of bed as well as in.
My library has the ebook, so yours may as well; otherwise it's available through standard online bookstores. I believe sites like Barnes & Noble have a preview, if you want to dip a toe in without buying it--the first chapter is a pretty good indication of the rest of the book. (It is technically the second of a trilogy, but works perfectly well as a standalone; the other books are good as well, though not relevant, even tenuously, to your wishlist.) I also feel duty-bound to note here that the cover is terrible; please do ignore it.
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on 2021-01-16 12:25 am (UTC)My library has the ebook, so yours may as well; otherwise it's available through standard online bookstores. I believe sites like Barnes & Noble have a preview, if you want to dip a toe in without buying it--the first chapter is a pretty good indication of the rest of the book. (It is technically the second of a trilogy, but works perfectly well as a standalone; the other books are good as well, though not relevant, even tenuously, to your wishlist.) I also feel duty-bound to note here that the cover is terrible; please do ignore it.