That's really positive to hear about OK Cupid, it makes me a little leery. I definitely can't put a face picture up on any dating or kink sites because of my job which I know will make other people leery. But I've already had to put a notice of FL that 'if you're under 25 and/or student, please don't bother' because this is a small town with two big universities and wow, that's a complication I just don't need. Anyway, I blather :) I may give it a try at some point.